Okay – I have to admit that I look forward to vacation breaks from school just as much as the children do. I have always looked forward to the breaks – even when I was a teacher. I can remember feeling almost giddy after sending home all those wild first graders on the last day of school. I have relished every moment of this summer vacation. Well, today it hit me – – time is almost up. I know, I really don’t want to remind myself. Yet, in the back of my mind I have purposed that in this new year we will get a new start and hopefully a better go at things.
I am proud of the distance that the children have come in the last year, but know that we have gotten slack in some areas. I guess my new resolution would be to improve the “slack” areas, make sure Chloe really “gets” her multiplication tables, help Jordan get over the hump in Algebra I, show Slater how to write a research paper for the first time, and go on MORE field trips. I don’t know – maybe I shouldn’t make it such a tall order, but I have always been one for making big goals.
The new year is always a great time for a fresh start, especially when things seem to be too difficult to manage. Homeschooling is no different. So often, by the end of summer, we feel like we are being dragged in to work. I am sure that many of you feel the same way. Well, take heart! Look at the new year as an opportunity – a new book with no writing – – yet! Start over – do whatever it takes to renew your outlook and encourage yourself and the children. In other years I have been so discouraged with how the curriculum went that I completely changed what we were doing. If you are feeling desperate – do something drastic. I have found that a drastic change really perks the kids up too!
Personally, this past year went pretty well so for us so we will just tweak our program a bit and perhaps change our schedule. Just a little “new” makes it more exciting to the children as well. I look forward to the fresh start – and new outlook. Wherever you are on your homeschooling journey – take advantage of the new beginning. It may make all the difference in the world, and by the way Monday morning will be here before we know it!
Yep, here I go stating the obvious again. I am curious though, is January going well? or is it a serious thumbs down time?
As home school moms, we all know January can go either way. I usually try to end the previous year with some down time, hoping against hope that it will renew my outlook and refresh my attitude toward my children and homeschooling. It’s tough though, it’s the middle of the year and there are a lot of issues that could get me down. Most often I’m beating myself up about not accomplishing everything that I had wanted to accomplish thus far, and that always gets me down. Over the years, I’ve tried to manage these struggles because as sure as it will rain – these struggles do come. There are a few simple things that I do that tend to help me combat those “thumbs down” times.
- You home school, you are the teacher and principal… a lot depends on you. No one else is going to make sure that you are ok… so YOU make sure. Take time off. No you don’t HAVE to get that project done this week, and believe it or not you can even cancel those extra music and art lessons.
- Do something that heals your heart. It’s different for everyone. Sometimes reading a book will help me, sometimes I need to pray, and sometimes I need to go away for a day or two. Sometimes just going to the mall alone or with a best friend will work wonders. Whatever your happy spot is, take a day or two to relish in it and allow it to feed your soul. Mom, you cannot help your children or your spouse if you are empty.
- Take a day to rearrange your school room. Change always brightens my perspective. I always think better in a neat and organized environment. So, I take a day or two to empty out, clean, and refit our schooling area. This really works wonders on my psyche. I find myself with my interest piqued once again, and ready to dive in.
- Take a day to enjoy your children without “requirements” or “being the teacher.” I know we, as parents, never truly get the day off… but take some time to just enjoy them…their smile, their laughter, their silliness… It just might be catching!
- Review the things that require your attention and time. Take a fresh look at your schedule. Is there anything that you really don’t need in your life? Cross it off… is there negativity that just brings you down? Cross it off. Surround yourself with things that encourage and motivate you. (Of course, we all know that life hits… and it just happens. But, the regular unnecessary negativity that we CAN do without – do without!)